A spokesman in the Paris Chamber of Commerce, when responding to a tourist survey, famously said: “The overall impression from the British and the Germans is that they love France but would rather the French weren’t there.”
It appears they may have to add the Japanese.
Apparently, every year, a dozen or so Japanese visitors to the French capital have to be repatriated with a condition labelled “Paris syndrome”. For some, it is close to a psychiatric breakdown: the Japanese embassy often has to supply a nurse and a doctor to accompany the sufferer on the plane home.
A stereotypical victim is in her early thirties, on her first trip abroad with high expectations of life in Paris – the sensation of walking on historic cobbled streets, the anticipation of high culture, the art of the Louvre: their minds race away and conjure a chateau in the sky. It's a vision that causes the heart to accelerate, the breath to shorten and soon their giddiness enforces a lie down with hallucinations.
The first hint that the bubble may not be impervious might be the rude taxi driver at the airport but this is too easily dismissed as an out of town coincidence
At the hotel there could be the discovery the manager has a whiff of unexpected sarcasm or the bellboy has a touch of surliness. The bubble is clearly vulnerable and there are the first symptoms of mild anxiety.
After a few weeks, this has developed into a persecution complex and the sufferer is not spending so much time in restaurants. After two months, they are on the verge of full-blown despair and struggle to shrug off the duvet.
Three months? Weeping down the twenty-four hour hotline to the embassy, prepared to accept a racehorse as long as it scoots them out of Paris and starts their journey home.
I have never been to Paris but, as I was on my snow-crunching constitutional today, I realised that, should I visit, I could potentially start a diplomatic incident. I could imagine bleating down the phone line, curled in a foetal ball, fist thumping the carpet, desperate for a Japanese Chargé to extricate an English bloke from a French city.
Therefore I decided, as another attractive young mother walked past me in her bobble, I shall never go, as it is my theory – and I need not for science to back me up here – that hats are very popular with French ladies.
Women wearing hats and the French language drive me wild. It is hard to rationalise but my Damascene moment came in my mid twenties when I was Christmas shopping with a mate’s then girlfriend.
We were in the M&S lingerie department, having a bit of a laugh, when she leaned her plush, hatted bonce over and said “That one is very French”, laughed and then proceeded to pour her silky, fluent French into my ear while I stared, glassy-eyed, at a mannequin sporting Illusion knickers.
She laughed heartily, performed a Gallic flick of her head and strode off into the Misty area.
I was a hormonal mess. We left M&S but there were hats everywhere. I mumbled something about needing to buy toys for my nephews and bumbled her into The Early Learning Centre, anything to be away from the infestation of hats. I couldn’t get sex off my mind and when paying for a multi coloured xylophone I noticed Daniel, the name-tagged teenage shop assistant, was wearing jingle bells on his wrist.
“Ha, ha, do they make you wear those for Christmas?” said my mate’s girlfriend, loudly.
Daniel nodded, glumly.
“I thought they were aversion therapy for excessive masturbation”, I said.
“You can fuck off” he jingled, as he summoned his supervisor and I was bustled out of the toy shop for immature behaviour by a determined Mrs. Pepperpot. Thankfully, she flaunted a reassuringly visible bun hairstyle and therefore did not make an impression on my sexual psyche.
It helped the moment pass but ever since I have been projecting fantasies onto unsuspecting chin straps wherever I go. I don’t know if there was an adolescent flashbulb moment but I fear a part might have been played by an episode of The Good Life depicting Felicity Kendall in a snow ball fight
As long as they are in a certain age range, I cannot help myself handing them massive quantities of mystique, style and, bizarrely, artistic credibility.
Every time, the hat provides a starting point for a personal adventure into wonderland and my normal, rational poker playing personality parachutes out of my body as it senses the first kindling in my ears. Within seconds, my nostrils are flaring like a Derby runner and my legs buckle on an internal camber: it’s the sight of the framed face with hidden, probably luxuriant hair and the presence of a pair of brave earlobes.
The woman then passes, ambling on her probably highly mundane mission, unaware, as my castle comes crashing down, of the melting presence behind her.
Like the Japanese in Paris, I would suffer terribly if exposed to beret-clad beauties, spouting mellifluous French at me, which is made all the more sexy by the fact I can’t understand a word of it. My body could not prolong the state of agitation. I would start to nestle in my boudoir, terrified by the possibility that one of creations might turn out to have hairy armpits or, worse, not have read all of À la recherché du temps perdu and guffaw at my suggestion.
Alternatively, and rather more devastatingly, a stay in Paris might serve to desensitise me to the day-making potential of a glimpse of a little felt number turning a corner on a bright February in Covent Garden.
For sufferers of Paris syndrome it is said the only permanent cure is to go back to Japan and never return to Paris.
It appears they may have to add the Japanese.
Apparently, every year, a dozen or so Japanese visitors to the French capital have to be repatriated with a condition labelled “Paris syndrome”. For some, it is close to a psychiatric breakdown: the Japanese embassy often has to supply a nurse and a doctor to accompany the sufferer on the plane home.
A stereotypical victim is in her early thirties, on her first trip abroad with high expectations of life in Paris – the sensation of walking on historic cobbled streets, the anticipation of high culture, the art of the Louvre: their minds race away and conjure a chateau in the sky. It's a vision that causes the heart to accelerate, the breath to shorten and soon their giddiness enforces a lie down with hallucinations.
The first hint that the bubble may not be impervious might be the rude taxi driver at the airport but this is too easily dismissed as an out of town coincidence
At the hotel there could be the discovery the manager has a whiff of unexpected sarcasm or the bellboy has a touch of surliness. The bubble is clearly vulnerable and there are the first symptoms of mild anxiety.
After a few weeks, this has developed into a persecution complex and the sufferer is not spending so much time in restaurants. After two months, they are on the verge of full-blown despair and struggle to shrug off the duvet.
Three months? Weeping down the twenty-four hour hotline to the embassy, prepared to accept a racehorse as long as it scoots them out of Paris and starts their journey home.
I have never been to Paris but, as I was on my snow-crunching constitutional today, I realised that, should I visit, I could potentially start a diplomatic incident. I could imagine bleating down the phone line, curled in a foetal ball, fist thumping the carpet, desperate for a Japanese Chargé to extricate an English bloke from a French city.
Therefore I decided, as another attractive young mother walked past me in her bobble, I shall never go, as it is my theory – and I need not for science to back me up here – that hats are very popular with French ladies.
Women wearing hats and the French language drive me wild. It is hard to rationalise but my Damascene moment came in my mid twenties when I was Christmas shopping with a mate’s then girlfriend.
We were in the M&S lingerie department, having a bit of a laugh, when she leaned her plush, hatted bonce over and said “That one is very French”, laughed and then proceeded to pour her silky, fluent French into my ear while I stared, glassy-eyed, at a mannequin sporting Illusion knickers.
She laughed heartily, performed a Gallic flick of her head and strode off into the Misty area.
I was a hormonal mess. We left M&S but there were hats everywhere. I mumbled something about needing to buy toys for my nephews and bumbled her into The Early Learning Centre, anything to be away from the infestation of hats. I couldn’t get sex off my mind and when paying for a multi coloured xylophone I noticed Daniel, the name-tagged teenage shop assistant, was wearing jingle bells on his wrist.
“Ha, ha, do they make you wear those for Christmas?” said my mate’s girlfriend, loudly.
Daniel nodded, glumly.
“I thought they were aversion therapy for excessive masturbation”, I said.
“You can fuck off” he jingled, as he summoned his supervisor and I was bustled out of the toy shop for immature behaviour by a determined Mrs. Pepperpot. Thankfully, she flaunted a reassuringly visible bun hairstyle and therefore did not make an impression on my sexual psyche.
It helped the moment pass but ever since I have been projecting fantasies onto unsuspecting chin straps wherever I go. I don’t know if there was an adolescent flashbulb moment but I fear a part might have been played by an episode of The Good Life depicting Felicity Kendall in a snow ball fight
As long as they are in a certain age range, I cannot help myself handing them massive quantities of mystique, style and, bizarrely, artistic credibility.
Every time, the hat provides a starting point for a personal adventure into wonderland and my normal, rational poker playing personality parachutes out of my body as it senses the first kindling in my ears. Within seconds, my nostrils are flaring like a Derby runner and my legs buckle on an internal camber: it’s the sight of the framed face with hidden, probably luxuriant hair and the presence of a pair of brave earlobes.
The woman then passes, ambling on her probably highly mundane mission, unaware, as my castle comes crashing down, of the melting presence behind her.
Like the Japanese in Paris, I would suffer terribly if exposed to beret-clad beauties, spouting mellifluous French at me, which is made all the more sexy by the fact I can’t understand a word of it. My body could not prolong the state of agitation. I would start to nestle in my boudoir, terrified by the possibility that one of creations might turn out to have hairy armpits or, worse, not have read all of À la recherché du temps perdu and guffaw at my suggestion.
Alternatively, and rather more devastatingly, a stay in Paris might serve to desensitise me to the day-making potential of a glimpse of a little felt number turning a corner on a bright February in Covent Garden.
For sufferers of Paris syndrome it is said the only permanent cure is to go back to Japan and never return to Paris.
I wonder, as the sufferer is trolleyed off at Haneda airport, do they allow the first triggers of an acceptable external reality to seep into their consciousness? Does the architecture match their own constructs of a pragmatic habitat? do they begin the process, possibly stealing a side glance at the international departure board, of constructing another fantasy? Maybe this time it is based on, say, Rome and it will become another internal Duomo, one they will have the self knowledge never to tarnish with actual physical experience?
I hope so as I need my hats.
Sometimes there has to be a bit more than another windswept tatty head and there is nothing wrong with building the occasional castle in the sky, the problem lies in residing in them.
I hope so as I need my hats.
Sometimes there has to be a bit more than another windswept tatty head and there is nothing wrong with building the occasional castle in the sky, the problem lies in residing in them.
1 comment:
Good article this one Dave. Made me laugh - very professional and very personal (to you) as well. Excellent.
Only criticism is the third to last paragraph - arguably the longest sentence I've ever read. Throw in a couple of full stops.
Stu
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